• Mark Mittlesteadt

What Do You Want to Be?

What do you want to be? What do you dream of doing with your life? If you could picture in your mind what your ideal life is, what would you be doing with it? Where do you see yourself five or ten years from now and what would your dream life look like? How much money do you have, what career are you engaged in, how close and special are your relationships, how healthy and happy are you in this new life and do you see yourself always growing?

Now that you've thought about that, think about where you are now. What is the difference between where you are and where you dream of being? So how do you get from here to there?

This is exactly what I teach people to do. I inspire them to dream of their ideal life and then through the practical application of techniques and exercises I've developed, I help them completely reset their way of thinking in order to develop and engage in the positive habits needed to totally transform their life into one of fulfillment and meaning. This changes their physical, mental, emotional and financial well being so they can live a life filled with purpose and contentment.

The single biggest obstacle to changing our lives is our mindset.

So, again I ask you; What do you want to be? That is a question often asked of us when we were young children. What do you want to be when you grow up? Yet, very few of us ever became what we answered, if we had an answer at all.

So at this point in your life, if asked again, would the answer change? What do you want to be? How would you answer that now? It's kind of funny how the answer changes the further along in life we are. As children, we had dreams of becoming something and we might have answered; a doctor, a lawyer, an astronaut, a professional athlete, an actor or movie star, a singer or dancer and on and on with the many occupations children associate with something they identify with as a dream of theirs. But when we are older, our answers are less about a career and more about things we want in life. So as adults, the answers are more along the lines of “happy, rich, or retired”, or what we might do with our time, “I want to be in my boat, on a lake, on the ocean, or on a beach on a tropical island”, and perhaps even “anywhere but here”. That is how dissatisfied with life we've become.

The truth is when we are older we no longer care what we wanted to be in our youth, because we stopped dreaming and that isn't going to happen anyway, right? Have you ever thought about how happy children are? As adults, we've lost our sense of purpose, so we toil away at our dead end jobs, hoping something better will come along, but it never does. Unless we change our habits, our routines, as well as our thinking and beliefs, nothing ever will come along and do that for us. We will be perpetually stuck where we are at. I know how to help change people's lives. I've been there myself, stuck in life, and I know what it takes to transform our lives from this aimless wandering through it where nothing seems to work, to where life is meaningful and happy. And it is really simple. It's not easy, but it's simple. As adults we complicate our lives unnecessarily and it affects everything we do in life, and that is exactly why we feel stuck or lost.

All of us have been programmed to think and believe in a particular way that typically results in negative thoughts about ourselves and the world around us, which ultimately holds us back from the life we were meant to live in order to be happy. We keep living on autopilot, just going through the motions of our everyday life where nothing changes and it has just become a routine we've grown tired of. Our life doesn't have to be this way. Yet, most of us haven't a clue how to change or where to even start. This is where I come in. I help people change their lives, and it is a very simple thing to do. It isn't going to be easy, because nothing worthwhile ever is, but it is quite simple when you apply the techniques and exercises I've developed for you. What typically holds people back from even starting is the reason of finances.

People think they can't afford my coaching services. But I can tell you (as I've proven to many clients) that they spend far more time and money on temporary distractions (that only help them forget their problems), than they would on my services (which would help them live the life of their dreams). How much would you spend to change your life forever? Would you spend $25 to $50 on a night out to forget your problems, only to return right back to them again the very next day? I help people take control over their life and change it completely. What is your dream life worth to you?

Do you really want to keep living as you are? Think about how much money you spend on entertainment, cable and internet access, social media, going out for dinner and/or drinks with friends, or buying so many things you only think will make you happy (but ultimately never do because they are just temporary distractions). I would bet that you spend far more on those things that do nothing to improve your life than you would spend on my services; Coaching that gives you the results you are looking for, which is a happy, meaningful life that you are excited to be living.

What are you waiting for? Nothing in your life is ever going to change until you actually decide you want to change it. But change is not easy and that's why you need the support and encouragement from me to keep you focused on making those changes. I have proven techniques and exercises that are specifically designed to help you change your life.

When do you want to make this change? Trust me, nothing is going to come along and change it for you. You have to make a commitment to changing your own life and I can help you do it. All it takes is one e-mail or phone call and together we can change your life for the better. The only thing holding you back, is you.

Start living the life you've always dreamed of having and become whatever you wish to be. I will help you get there.

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